Two Most Important Things in a Therapist

Two Most Important Things in a Therapist

Two Most Important Things to Look For in a Therapist

and why

Have you decided to possibly go on the hunt for a counselor to help you work through some things?

Usually the first thing people do is search for a clinician who is “in-network” with their insurance, which means they are trying to find a therapist who accepts the insurance they have.

This allows the client to bill their insurance for services and only pay a co-pay. While this is a helpful tool when money is tight, it doesn’t guarantee you will receive the best services.

Clients often start seeing whoever they are “assigned to” with an agency or other big mental health department.

This doesn’t guarantee quality of services because you could be referred to someone who has an opening for you, but not someone who is trained and able to treat exactly what you need treated.

You wouldn’t take your Honda Civic to a Diesel mechanic….because that deisel mechanic may know enough to treat your Civic, but he specializes in Deisels. Wouldn’t you rather take your Civic to someone who specializes in Honda’s, or better yet, Civics?

Its the same with your mental health. Not all therapists are created equal. And we can’t all effectively treat everything.

For example, I would never feel competent treating someone with an eating disorder, or a substance abuse addiction. That’s not where my training and expertise lies. I could still help that person with general things, but I wouldn’t be able to go the long journey of full healing and recovery with them.

So do yourself a favor, and take the time to focus on THESE TWO main things when searching for a therapist. I promise you it will be worth it.

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What is Trauma?

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Trauma and Treatment

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Now Open in Columbia!

Now Open in Columbia!

We’ve finally moved into a brick and mortar office location in downtown Columbia! This was an exciting step that was made official at the end of February.

The building is an old 1860’s home with original wood flooring. It offers big office spaces for my and my colleague’s private practices with group therapy and waiting room space. Cindy Smith of Foundations for Living, a fabulous therapist who specializes in trauma, ADD/ADHD testing, and children, shares the space with me.

Our goal is to make our clients feel comfortable and welcomed. From the “self care station” with drinks and snacks to the essential oil diffusers throughout the office, we want our clients to feel that their needs are being met holistically.

I want my office to be a space where my clients can release the burdens they carry and feel a sense of peace. I absolutely love the space and its honestly my happy place- I love being at my office and I love what I do.

Cora waiting for session to begin